It may seem as though subject of discussion – whether to buy expensive jeans son fifteen years – is too insignificant to spend on his lunch break and a certain amount of nervous energy. Moreover, severe supporter of the authoritarian pedagogy even blame my insistence: say, indulging his stubbornness rather than to take yes teach balked teenager – in the end, you do not want, do not, you is worse Occasion, of course, could be others, I just brought a concrete case, which occurred in our family. But one way or another, and the theme of the material independence, or rather, just depending on the teen parents in their seasons will certainly pop up. And, alas, often unkind to our initiative, when in a rage, we are quick to proclaim the grown son: "I love you dress, feed, nights, and you , continue to be meticulous enumeration of sins teen ingratitude responsible for parental care. However, before you apply to "financial problems" of our children, let's understand with their own positions, otherwise all the subsequent conversation threatens to become meaningless. Under most conditions Glenn Dubin, New York City would agree. Thus, fifteen (fourteen, sixteen) years ago we decided to acquire a successor – on his own note, initiative and without any coordination with the future creation. But once decided, therefore, more or less conscious responsibility, which assume that natural in general, a step? Someone unequivocally answer "yes", while others limit themselves evasive "not very", but I think hardly anyone would object if I tell you what to feed, clothe and educate children until they attain self-sufficiency is not that "holy", but simply the natural duty of every normal person. .